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We have great news for all you St Louis subs!  Stunning Atlanta-based Mistress Ultra Violet will return to America’s Gateway to the West October 25–28… just in time for the Halloween season.  Although this may be Her last trip to St Louis this year, the good news is that She feels especially witchy, with Halloween only a couple of weeks away!

Known for Her great beauty, Mistress Ultra Violet lives for chastity and cuckolding. She delights in your suffering and enjoys such things as slave training, corporal punishment, objectification, feminization (playful or forced), human pet training, chastity, tease and denial, interrogation, humiliation, foot/boot worship, golden showers, role play, CBT,  bondage, ass worship, domestic discipline, emotional sadism, forced role reversal, and a whole lot more.  

Word of Mistress Ultra Violet’s visit is spreading fast so go ahead and click on any of the super sexy witchy photos below to get to her website for more information, and book your session while space remains!

Be sure to follow Mistress Ultra Violet & Atlanta Dungeon on Twitter!

Gorgeous Atlanta-based Mistress Ayn is on the move again as she announces her attendance at DomCon NOLA from October 10–14!  This year She'll be recognized as a Guest of Honor and will attend the requisite functions befitting this status.  She will also offer FemDom sessions in the host hotel as Her schedule permits.

Mistress Ayn is an internationally respected and notable figure of both the professional FemDom and lifestyle scenes.  Based in Atlanta, she sessions from world-famous Atlanta Dungeon and is the Proprietress of ultra exclusive FemDom Mansion.  She’s an expert in many forms of BDSM, including bondage, domination, humiliation, discipline and various forms of D/s play.

Mistress Ayn will attend the following events:

• Opening night dinner
• Red Carpet walk and opening ceremonies
• ProDom Social
• Kinky parade down Bourbon Street
• The Mistress Tea
• VIP Social
• And, of course, the nightly play parties

And you’ll be happy to know She has set some time aside for sessions in between these activities and will also be available for public sessions at the Friday, Saturday and Sunday night play parties.  These sessions are always a ton of fun – especially for the exhibitionists!

Go ahead and click on any of the gorgeous photos below for contact information and book now to serve Mistress Ayn in New Orleans!

Be sure to follow Mistress Ayn & Atlanta Dungeon on Twitter!

Stunning Atlanta-based Mistress Ultra Violet is freshly back from a hugely successful tour of Tokyo… but She’s not quite ready to settle back into Her routine as owner and operator of world-famous Atlanta Dungeon just yet!  Ultra Violet is currently accepting sessions at Her St. Louis dungeon September 27–30, and will follow this up with another trip to Her NYC Dungeon home, Pandora's Box, October 5–10! 

Mistress Ultra Violet is an honest-to-goodness Playboy TV Star, and is well known as a DomCon LA and New Orleans Honored Guest.  As a professional and lifestyle Dominatrix, Her contributions as an entrepreneur, mentor, artist, and producer/director are widely recognized. She has twice been recognized by DomCon as an Honored Guest and has many other achievements, far too numerous to list here.

She recently starred in Playboy TV’s ‘Undercover’ with comedian and actress Kate Quigley, in ‘Slave Training Atlanta Dungeon Style!’.  She also stars in and directs the wildly successful Atlanta Dungeon video production series, and is featured in The English Mansion, AynRules.com, and FemDom Mansion. 

Go ahead and click on any of the gorgeous photos below to get to Her website and book your #SaintLouis or #NYC session today while space remains!

Be sure to follow Mistress Ultra Violet and Atlanta Dungeon on Twitter!

The rumors are true, and strap-on, pegging, and prostate massage expert – Erin Black – is about to hit the road again!  Do not miss Her in:

• Detroit MI October 11–13
• Charlotte NC October 17–19
• Charleston SC October 20–23
• Atlanta GA November 16–19

Yes, you may officially start to get excited now!

Erin understands that ‘ordinary’ isn’t a word which would ever describe your passions, wants, and tastes…. those desires that quicken your pulse, redden your cheeks, and dilate your pupils. She knows them well. After a few years as a Professional Dominatrix, She ventured to bend the definition of what it means to be sexually dominant. She never truly identified as a Dominatrix and sees it as a word too often loaded with formality for Her own tastes. Quite simply, Erin is a top, a fetishist, and an anal play enthusiast. What this means for you is that She’s playfully and powerfully in charge and knows exactly what it takes to put you over pleasure’s edge.  

Ready to have your desires made real?  Then go ahead and click on any of the stunning images below to get to Erin’s website and book now while space remains!  Pre-booking is highly recommended as Her schedule tends to fill up quickly and special requests must be made in advance. 

Be sure to follow Erin Black on Twitter!

We have some exciting news to share! Gorgeous Domina Daria’s new dungeon, The Meridian Dallas, is open and in full swing!  To kick things off, lovely Austin-based Miss Crimson Rush will stay and play at The Meridian Dallas from September 28–30.  Mistress Daria is also available to join Her for doubles.

Next up, blonde bombshell Goddess Ashlee will join Mistress Daria to host some FemDom parties, along with gorgeous Mistress Leti and beautiful Miss Crimson Rush! The parties will be held on October 3 from 5:00-9:00 pm, October 4 from 2:00-5:00 pm, followed by a Sissy Bruncheon on October 5 from 11:00 am-1:00 pm. All attendees will be entered in a draw to win one of five fabulous prizes offered by Mistress Daria and Goddess Ashlee. These events are expected to sell out so be sure to contact Mistress Daria ASAP to book.

But wait, there’s more!  Mistress Daria’s long-time friend and collaborator, the stunning Mistress Montana, will join Her to take over Ohio from October 17–23! Together, these two beauties will dominate the boys of Dayton, Cincinnati, and Cleveland.  There are also rumors of a road trip to Chicago, and you Indiana subs had best hold onto your seats because the Ladies will be in your town soon as well!

Go ahead and click on any of the super-hot images below to get to Mistress Daria’s website or email Mistressdariaofdallas@gmail.com to book!

Be sure to follow Mistress Daria and The Meridian Dallas on Twitter!

Today, we turn to lovely Florida-based Evil Opal for some advice on hard limits.  You’re probably familiar with hard limits as being those lines you’re not willing to cross; activities you absolutely don’t want to do in a BDSM power exchange. But Opal suggests you also consider the hard limits you must have in your Mistress/slave relationship.

Hard limits as must-haves

Let’s face it, Opal knows you wouldn’t be into this kinky stuff if you didn’t have fantasies and desires. And it’s very likely you have one or two fetishes you’d find extremely tough to live without. It’s ok to consider these things when you’re looking for a dream Domme, Opal says. It’s also ok to bring those things up when you negotiate a slave contract or slave training program with your Mistress.

Say there’s a certain fetish or type of play deeply necessary to your sexual or emotional satisfaction. Opal says it’s not only ok but vital that you find a Domme who’s happy to incorporate those things into your Mistress/slave relationship. A couple of common examples are crossdressing or toilet training. If these things are a BIG DEAL for you, then Opal suggests you ask yourself whether you’d ever really be happy with a Domme who was turned off by them.

Mistress/slave relationship protocols

There are also some less obvious aspects of a Mistress/slave relationship which can be very important, and level of contact is a good example, according to Opal.  How often do you desire contact with your Domme? Are you hoping for daily chats or are monthly play sessions enough? Different expectations regarding level of contact is apparently a very common source of dissatisfaction and conflict between Dommes and subs.

Likewise, you may each desire a different level of protocol, says Opal. If you’re the type of slave who longs for high protocol, you’ll feel unsatisfied with a low protocol owner where a more egalitarian-minded sub might chafe miserably under high protocol demands. And unless you’ve already given it some thought, you might not even know which kind of sub you are. And it’s ok not to know! But that too should be communicated to your Domme, so she can understand what to expect from you – which in this case would be your need/desire to experiment with different levels of protocol, to determine what works for you.

Practical needs in D/s

Opal sees aftercare as another great example of ‘hard limit’ must haves in a Mistress/slave relationship. And this includes aftercare for both physical and emotional aspects of a BDSM scene. You might need words of reassurance after that heavy humiliation scene you crave, just as much as you’d need your wounds tended to after heavy physical play.

Last but certainly not least, there are any number of practical ‘vanilla’ needs which Opal suggests be included in a slave training program or BDSM slave contract. Health needs for instance: are you diabetic? Then it’s entirely reasonable that you be allowed to eat properly and regularly, and to make sure you take your insulin. Other material needs should be considered as well. For instance, Opal requires Her slaves to make a financial contribution to Her as part of their servitude. This is one of Her personal ‘must-have’ hard limits. But She also requires that they budget enough to pay for their own bills, including health insurance, retirement savings, etc. Debt and bankruptcy may be fun to fantasize about but what good is a broke(n) tool She can no longer use? Opal prefers to take proper care of Her tools, so they’ll be usable for a lifetime!

Is there anything you must have, in order to be satisfied in your Mistress/slave relationship? Then click on any of the sexy images above to get to gorgeous Evil Opal’s website or talk to Her about it right now!

Be sure to follow Evil Opal on Twitter HERE and HERE!

The rumors are true, and strap-on, pegging, and prostate massage expert Erin Black is headed back to Manhattan!  The Chicago-based beauty will host from a private, domestic Midtown space in New York City from September 16 to 20.  Yes, you may officially start to get excited now!

Erin understands that ‘ordinary’ isn’t a word which would ever describe your passions, wants, and tastes…. those desires that quicken your pulse, redden your cheeks, and dilate your pupils. She knows them well. After a few years as a Professional Dominatrix, She ventured to bend the definition of what it means to be sexually dominant. She never truly identified as a Dominatrix and sees it as a word too often loaded with formality for Her own tastes. Quite simply, Erin is a top, a fetishist, and an anal play enthusiast. What this means for you is that She’s playfully and powerfully in charge and knows exactly what it takes to put you over pleasure’s edge.  

Ready to have your desires made real?  Then go ahead and click on any of the stunning images below to get to Erin’s website and book now while space remains!  Pre-booking is highly recommended as Her schedule tends to fill up quickly in New York and special requests must be made prior to September 14. 

Be sure to follow Erin Black on Twitter!

We have some very exciting news to share!  Exotic beauty Mistress Ultra Violet of Atlanta Dungeon fame and gorgeous LA-based King Lexa will take over Tokyo, Japan September 10–18! These Women enter lives to push limits and the Japanese subs need to know it.

Mistress Ultra Violet is an artist, Dominatrix, model, and dungeon-owner located in Atlanta, Georgia. She truly is the new breed of Professional Dominatrix: strong, aggressive, and fearless.  At an impressive 5'8" and 115 lbs, you’ll be spellbound by Her lustrous, thick, red hair with its violet highlights, but you’ll be utterly captivated by her ocean green eyes. 

King Lexa is a beautiful, young Dominatrix rapidly becoming a who's who in the BDSM scene. She gets excited just thinking about dominating and humiliating you, and She knows how much you'll squirm with delight while She tortures and teases you.  She enjoys many aspects of Domination, but full toilet training, CBT, foot worship, and scissor holds are where Her true joy lies.

The two Ladies are attracted to the authentic submissive who exhibits intelligence, civility, attentiveness, and financial oblation.  Their focus, however, is power exchange.  To craft personal challenges with the sole purpose of exploring new levels of your submission is what They enjoy most, and They’re interested to know how you will satisfy Them.

Make no mistake, however, as you’ll fall prey to Them during your very first session.  But take heart, it will be a fair chance for you to demonstrate your ability to serve Them properly!

The two legends will conduct both single and double sessions and you will submit to some, if not all, of Their primary interests:

• the erotic art of denial
• verbal humiliation
• CBT
• anguished control
• coerced forced scenarios (this may include TT, emasculation, sissy modification, mental manipulation, and impact play)

This is a once in a lifetime opportunity to serve two of the world’s most beautiful Goddesses, so click on any of the stunning photos above and book your session today!

Be sure to follow Mistress Ultra Violet, King Lexa, & Atlanta Dungeon on Twitter!

We’re thrilled to announce that award-winning LA-based Princess Marx will kick off Her September mini tour in just a few days! Buckle up, DC and NYC subs; She’s coming for you!

• Washington DC Sept 5-7
• New York City Sept 8-11

Beautiful Princess Marx offers bespoke BDSM experiences with a laughing mean streak, but Her primary interest is always real power exchange. Six years of professional experience, Eastern European roots, and an Ivy League education don't hurt, either (well, they don't hurt Her, anyway ;-). Turn yourself over to a lifetime’s worth of kinky exploration, and feel free to ask questions – She loves to talk about it.

Princess Marx keeps hearing that She’s willing to push further than others and this especially comes up regarding trampling.  She will always play within your limits – just ask some of Her lighter bottoms!  But rest assured, She’ll ask which are your hard limits and which are your soft ones... expect the latter to get pushed. 

Don’t miss your opportunity to serve this iconic beauty. Click on any of Her gorgeous photos below to get to Her website and book now while there are still spots available!

Be sure to follow Princess Marx on Twitter!

Have you been dying to meet Domina Mara in person but don’t live near Los Angeles?  Well, have we got news for you!  This hypnotic Goddess is about to kick off an extensive tour and She just might be coming to your hometown!

Exotically beautiful Domina Mara hails from international waters, with Chinese, Filipino, and Spanish blood, and is currently based in Los Angeles. She also travels frequently to San Francisco, Chicago, and New York City.

Her career as a professional BDSM player began in 2013 at a local dungeon in Los Angeles. This experience created a solid foundation for Her knowledge of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sado-masochism.  Her greatest joy as a Dominant is to watch you transform into the most humble and genuine submissive with purpose. 

The most popular fetish requests Domina Mara receives are impact play, roleplay, bondage, Kinbaku (Japanese rope), foot and leg worship, sensory play, smothering, tease and denial, slave training, sissy transformation, pet play, GS, trampling, and healing with hypnosis.  For a complete list of fetishes, as well as an assortment of vanilla date packages, continue reading on Her website. 

Look for Domina Mara in the following places until the end of 2019:

San Francisco:  9/7 - 9/9

Ontario, Inland Empire:  9/10 - 9/12

Torture Garden Los Angeles:  9/14

New York City:  9/19 - 9/22

Boston:  9/23 - 9/25

Philadelphia:  9/26 - 9/28

Los Angeles:  9/30 - 10/15

Athens, GR:  10/22 - 10/24

Malmö, SE - Fennek Film Erotikafton 2019:  10/25 - 10/26

Copenhagen, DK:  10/27 - 10/29

Hentaicon 2019 [Los Angeles]:   11/1 - 11/2

Newport Beach:  11/3 - 11/4

Portland:  11/5 – 11/7

Seattle:  11/7 - 11/9 

Los Angeles:  11/10 - NYE

And don’t panic if your city isn’t listed as Domina Mara also offers Fly Me to You packages.

You’ve waited long enough, dreaming that She’ll work Her sensually sadistic magic on you, so go ahead and click on any of Her gorgeous photos to get to Her website, and make your dream a reality… book NOW!

Find Domina Mara on Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, Vimeo, FetLife, subscribe to Her newsletter  & check Her travel page often!