Experienced, Deviant, Clever, and Caring Lifestyle Dominatrix

“‎And yet I have had the weakness, and have still the weakness, to wish you to know with what a sudden mastery you kindled me, heap of ashes that I am, into fire.”

- Charles Dickens

My name is Madeleine Xanthine, and I have been gleefully fanning the ashes and coals of lust and desire into blazing fires for more than two decades. My kink evolved from a simple spanking and bondage fetish to a lustful thirst to see the innermost corners of people - to shake up the norms that society has placed upon us and to find delight and respite in both the simplest and most complicated of acts.

  My truest fetish now is to take people to places they weren't sure they could go, and to deliver them to a state of release and transformation after their experience with me. This can be through experiencing physical pain or prolonged pleasure, through discovering new boundaries, through experiencing true vulnerability, through immersive roleplay, or through one of the world of kink's other deviant delights.

I teach, coach, and offer intimate one-on-one and couple's sessions in the realms of polyamory, BDSM, kink, sexuality, and alternative sexuality and lifestyles, all in the privacy of my well appointed dungeon in a private home in Kitsilano. I am welcoming and friendly to new adventurers - your shyness and uncertainty is a treasure to me and I endeavor to make you as relaxed and comfortable as possible -  until it is time for you to challenge yourself and surrender to the experience.

I have taken extensive trainings and classes and have taught for many of the largest kink and BDSM organizations in the world, and it is my pleasure to share my knowledge with you. I have extensive experience in most areas of kink and I especially enjoy roleplay, rope bondage (shibari, kinbaku, mummification, and western), rough body play, pantyhose and stocking fetish, power exchange, tease and denial, wam play, corporal and impact play, needles (placed with intention), feminization (not forced or as an act of degradation - it is an honor to be femme in my presence), and tantric massage and eroticism.  I take care to negotiate a frame for us to work within, and your scene or session will be different from any one else's. This is not one-size-fits-all and you won't be surprised with something unless we have spoken about it, or treated like a worm unless you have asked for it. Most of my clients are repeat and our scenes develop and evolve over years of exploration. 

My website has all the little details and a further explanation of my services. Please visit me at www.xanthine.ca and let's see where the rabbit hole can take us.