I am Mistress Alessandra, Shanghai's most discreet, experienced and creative English-speaking Dominatrix.
Over the past 17 years, I have dominated hundreds of Western men — CEOs, lawyers, pilots, engineers, bankers, diplomats, married men, divorced men, hopeless romantics, confident alphas, and the shyest introverts.

1. Pegging (Anal Penetration by a Woman)

The number one request. CEOs, pilots, bankers — everyone wants to surrender their masculinity for a moment.

2. Chastity Locking

Long-term orgasm control, keyholding, denial.
Many expats stay locked for months.

3. Foot Fetish

Asian feet + high heels + power dynamics = irresistible.

4. Boot Worship

Men kneel.
Women stand.
Balance restored.

5. Spanking & Corporal Punishment

Executives with too much control crave the opposite.

6. Public Humiliation (Controlled & Discreet)

Cafe kneeling, whispered orders, silent obedience.

7. Shibari Rope Bondage

Japanese inspiration, Shanghai execution.
A favorite among artistic expats.

8. Mommy Domme / ABDL

Surprisingly common among stressed Western professionals craving emotional regression.

9. Medical Play

From clinical authority roles to fantasy checkups.

10. Human Furniture

Footstools, tables, chairs — objectification fetish.

11. Sissy Training

Lingerie, stockings, and feminization scenes for straight and bi men alike.

12. Roleplay Domination

Teacher/student, boss/employee, immigration officer, military scenes.

13. Toilet Play (Soft & Hard)

Requested more often than most people would imagine.
Executives, especially.

14. Latex & Leather Fetish

The textures of power.

15. Smothering / Face-Sitting

Strong feminine control taken literally.

16. Cuckolding & Hotwife Fantasies

Especially common among married expats working long hours.

17. Domestic Servitude

Cleaning, laundry, cooking — submission through chores.

18. Financial Domination

Tributes, tasks, and controlled spending.

19. Sensory Deprivation

Blindfolds, earmuffs, isolation experiences.

20. Military & Interrogation Roleplay

Brings out the raw, primal surrender many men avoid in daily life.

21. Feminine Objectification

Lipstick smears, perfume traces, makeup marking.

22. Breathplay

Intense but highly controlled dominance.

23. Hair Worship

Especially common with Asian dommes — hair pulling, smothering, scenting.

24. BDSM Impact Toys

Crops, canes, paddles with precise technique.

25. Body Worship

Slaves kneeling to adore: legs, hips, boots, curves.

26. Verbal Degradation

Dirty language, emotional power exchange.

27. Sensual Domination

Soft dominance, whisper control, slow psychological seduction.

28. Age Play (Older Woman / Younger Man)

Especially popular among younger Western men new to Asia.

29. Forced Chastity Milking

No orgasm.
No pleasure.
Only extraction.

30. Complete Power Surrender

No script.
No plan.
Just trust — and total authority in the hands of the domme.

Shanghai Domme Alessandra & 1208 BDSM Sessions

email mistress@doctor.com