dv: Hi. It’s a pleasure talking to you; I’ve been a big fan ever since you came onto the scene. Tell people where you’re currently located and whether you have any travel plans for the rest of 2018.
EM: I currently reside in Denver, Colorado. I have several vacations planned for the remainder of 2018, including Curacao, Cozumel, and Grand Cayman. As far as business travels, are concerned, I will be in St. Petersburg FL in August for FetishCon.
dv: Wow, sounds like you really love to travel. I know you haven't always been in Denver. What brought you to that part of the world?
EM: I grew up in a small town outside of Raleigh NC and lived there until January of 2017. I just moved to Denver 15 months ago. I wanted to get out of the small town where most of my family and I grew up, so I could explore the world while I still had the chance.
EM: Does anyone aspire to be a Dominatrix? LOL. No, the schoolgirl me would not be surprised. I was pretty rebellious at a young age and did things my own way regardless of what people thought of me.
dv: Rebel with a cause as it turned out then, LOL. What was your initial introduction to the scene and how did that evolve into your decision to make this a profession?
EM: I found the scene online at a very early age and that progressed to real time. I had local subs who did things for me regularly while I held down a normal 9:00 to 5:00 job. I eventually realized I could make the same money, if not more, doing what I enjoyed while also being my own boss.
dv: Who would you consider your heroes in the business and who have been mentors?
EM: I wouldn't say I have any heroes or mentors. I have been a one woman business from the get-go since 2007. Everything you see of me on the internet, I have accomplished and earned myself.
dv: Wow, impressive! Do you recall your very first session? Tell us about some of the most memorable ones you’ve had.
EM: I do! A girlfriend and I waited for a sub to meet us at Starbucks. He was extremely late, and I humiliated him right in the middle of Starbucks by making him go across the street to get cash from the ATM for making us wait… and it didn't stop there :)
One of the most memorable sessions I've ever had took place years ago with slave brad. We were in the middle of a session in my living room when the doorbell rang. I left him on the floor in order to answer the door, where two young Jehovah’s Witness girls stood. They tried to talk to me while slave brad lay naked on the floor, slightly out of view. If only they knew ;)
EM: Extreme humiliation, ball busting, and FinDom.
dv: What sort of facility do you have?
EM: I have never had a facility. I’ve always liked to think of myself as the hot bratty girl next door; no dungeon needed. I hold sessions in hotel rooms or in my home for personal subs :)
dv: What do you think people assume about Pro Dommes, or more specifically you, that is just not true?
EM: That I'm only in it for the money. Absolutely not true. I got into doing this professionally because I loved doing it in my free time. I'm also not as mean as most people assume! I actually have quite a caring, down to earth personality if you get to know the real me and not just my internet persona that you see in videos.
dv: Tell us about your site. What services do you offer besides real time sessions and where can people find you on social media?
EM: I have a huge catalog of videos that I sell on numerous websites and which I frequently update. I also offer phone sessions and webcam sessions, and last year in addition to my main site I opened a members site! I'm also on twitter and instagram.
dv: Wow, you do have a lot of stuff on the go! How do you balance everything and what do you like to do for fun? Do you have any hobbies?
EM: I'm not going to lie. Running an online business is very time consuming, especially if you want to be successful. I'm 'the girl who's always on her phone', be it responding to emails or updating social media. I honestly feel like I work 24/7 and sometimes it's hard to break away from work. Most online Dommes like to pretend/portray that it's easy, but I don't.
I 'get away/decompress' by taking vacations every three to four months. It's how I reset my body and mind. I'm in my happy place when I'm on a beach in the Caribbean.
In my downtime, I love spending time with my dogs and friends.
dv: What are some of your future goals?
EM: Right now, my current goal is to get my name out there even more. I want to be known by everyone; not just the fetish world.
dv: Well that's fantastic and I wish you continued success with all your goals and plans. I'd also like to thank you for taking the time out of your busy schedule to do this interview!
EM: Thank you! I have been a follower of your website for years now!
April 29, 2018