Interviews

dv: It’s a pleasure talking to you. As you know, I've been a big fan since I first came across your site.  Tell people where you're currently located and whether you have any travel plans for the balance of 2017.  Are you coming to see me in Vancouver?

OVR: Hi dickie. I am Chicago based but tour occasionally in NYC and San Francisco with plans to visit Las Vegas in the near future and, perhaps, even Vancouver. I plan to head back to NYC, SF and Vegas mid summer through the fall season of this year.

dv: Is Chicago where you began your career, and if not, what took you to that part of the world?

OVR: Indeed. Chicago has been my home since immigrating from Europe as a child.

dv: Cool, geat city.  Maybe I'll come visit you!  Were you an aspiring Dominatrix in your childhood days?  If we went back in time, would you be shocked to learn that your future centered around disciplining men?  What were you like back in high school?

OVR: I have always had powerful erotic and theatrical inclinations as a young creature, but those were leans I instinctively downplayed throughout much of my childhood/teen years for good reasons. I was in touch with my 'secret self', and always very aware that I would transform into a character where sex and power were central to my adult narrative. My high school years were challenging, and wrought with classic teenage strife. I was painfully awkward and shy. Books, Bach, Mozart, and Beethoven were my only consolation. 

dv: That's hard to imagine but of course people change a lot after the difficult high school years, and you clearly have, much to the delight of subs everywhere.  What was your initial introduction to the scene and how did it evolve into your decision to practise this as a profession?

OVR: My first formal literary introduction took place while reading the Sleeping Beauty erotic trilogy by Anne Rice. In practice, I engaged in some light switch play with my very first boyfriend who ended the relationship by telling me how horrible I was at domination. Months later I began switching professionally - I wasn't going to allow a failed first relationship to dictate my aptitude or diminish my motivation. Once I felt comfortable, my secret self emerged and catapulted me to the place I find myself in today. 

dv: I hope he returned as a paying customer, lol.  Who would you consider your heroes in the business and who have been mentors?

OVR: The individuals I consider heroes, both fictional or not, have nothing to do with this industry - Hester Prynne who taught me the value of quiet perseverance, Joan of Arc who taught me that women will unflinchingly lead men into battle, Sojourner Truth who taught me that smart, resolute opposition to the misinformed status quo is the right thing to do, Malala Yousafzai, Simone de Beauvoir,  etc.  I have worked with a series of Mistresses at La Cage, none of who I can say were mentors. There was simply an exchange of information for labor. That is how commercial dungeons operate. I am solely responsible for where I am today. I will say that of all my Domme encounters, I miss the 6ft 3in Mistress Ashley from La Cage the most. 

dv: Do you recall your very first session? Tell us about some of the most memorable ones.

OVR: I cannot remember the very first session. Of the most memorable were: a session in which I played a doctor who was 'programming' an android sex-bot for beta testing, an Abbess who was corrupting young male congregants, a co-domination session where I forced my male slave to watch as I teased and tormented my female slave (every time he suffered an erection, he was zapped with estim - wonderfully dynamic session), a novice sissification session where my charge was meticulously primed for extended use and an age regression session where I would behave very maternally but subject my sub to creative torture such as dusting suppositories with cayenne pepper before insertion. 

dv: Ohh, wicked.  You certainly don't lack creativity in your sessions. What do your favorite scenes involve?

OVR: My favorite scenes typically involve forced toilet or cow training, extensive role-play, my female house slave, heavy corporal, sissification and slut training, as well as heavy tease and denial. 

dv: I know when we do surveys around here, toilet training is always one of the major fantasies of sub males. In fact, I predict many will call you after reading this interview to enquire about this very service.  You have an amazing ass; I'd think a slave could spend hours alone just gazing up it.  However, I digress.  Tell us a bit about your facility.

OVR: I have a fully equipped 2,700 square foot bi-level studio with an upper dungeon, medical exam room and boudoir that serves well for sissification or more sensual scenes. 

dv: You have an impressive place.  What do you think people assume about Pro Dommes, or more specifically you, that is just not true?

OVR: What I encounter frequently is this mindset that we hate men, or that our 'behavior' is born out of childhood/adult trauma. Vanilla people cannot seem to fathom that many Dommes are well-adjusted individuals and in many cases, academics. Our goal is not to corrupt society but to help people cope emotionally with the stress of a demanding daily ritual. Escape and rehabilitation take on many forms, whether it's seeing a chiropractor, getting a massage, going on a spiritual retreat, or seeing a professional Domme for an hour or two during your lunch break. 

dv: Tell us about your site, what types of services you offer besides real time sessions, and where people can find you on social media.

OVR: Everyone is welcome to peruse my SITE where I list the fetishes I cater to, display my calendar of availability, discuss the specifics of the booking process, extend access to my NiteFlirt lines, offer stories of my sessions from the submissive POV, provide methods of sending deposits for sessions or gift tributes, and offer fetish items for sale such as my panties and pictures.   You can also get routine updates of my fetish exploits and musings on TWITTER.

dv: Your site is great (so to all you subs reading this, be sure to visit it by clicking on any of the images in this blog).  How do you balance everything and what do you like to do for fun?  Do you have any hobbies ?

OVR: Maintaining balance is key to not being overwhelmed in this industry. I am definitely someone who likes her private time, so I make certain to adhere to my hours of availability. I never jump to accommodate last minute inquiries. Those looking to spend time with me in session must schedule in advance - when things are rushed, the experience is never as good. Dommes have to get into headspace themselves before play and there is quite a bit of preparation required prior to session. Submissives and play-partners should respect that. I have an extensive family who I enjoy spending time with. I sail as much as I can and take in as much theater as possible. I am also an avid euchre and cribbage player!

dv: What are some of your future goals?

OVR: I am currently working on securing a space where I can host fetish events, something I hope to fully actualize by 2018. 

dv: Good luck with that; it sounds exciting.  I wish you continued success in all your endeavors and admire you as a beautiful, skilled and professional Domina.  Thank You!

OVR: Thanks dickie.

May, 2017