Empress Elsewise ~ submission via Seduction ~ psychosexual power exchange ~ luxury fetish ~

    ~ desire ~ believe ~ ask ~ receive ~ 

    you will enjoy My

    • Luxury Fetish (see below)
    • Sensual Sadism & submission via Seduction
    • Psychosexual Role Play & Mindfuckery
    • Sensory Deprivation, Exploitation & ASMR
    • Foot, Shoe, Boot Worship & Objectification
    • Empress Essence: the intimacy of watersports and lemonade  
    • Tease, Denial & Chastity
    • Breath Play, Bondage & Latex
    • Bastinado & Caning 
    • Sploshing & Food Play
    • Spitting, Drooling and Slapping
    • FinDom and Financial Servitude 

    The harmonic journey of a life less ordinary lies ahead..

     

    Step into My Empire

    I'm a full spectrum fetishist with a range of interests. I indulge the dark, wild, weird, and taboo. I love the creativity of intricate role plays, the simplicity of straight impact, or the opportunity to be a safe first step on your kinksploration. My kink aligns through an embodied practice of psychosexual integration that has a seamless flow of erotically infused sensation, pain and pleasure. My 20 years as a psychotherapist and mindfulness practitioner intersects with my passion for embodied and experiential BDSM. I have been a lifestyle and pro Domme since 2015. 

     

    Luxury Fetish is a highly stylized, sensually sadistic, intimate form of play infused with decadence, opulence, slow seduction, tease and denial, and elevated objectification. It leverages the Feminine in a power exchange that is implied rather than asserted, so that submission is given freely and with exquisite devotion. It can include: gifs and acts of service, human furniture and objectification, trampling, champagne service and spitting, being fed or smearing food, the intimate act of consuming my essence, pet play, being my toy, emasculation and lingerie play, foot/leg/shoe worship, intimate eye contact, vulnerability and midfuckery, slapping and impact play, swaddling and bondage to exploit and captivate the senses. 

     

    I have you wrapped head to toe, immobile and helpless. I stand over you and command you to gaze upon me, my eyes frighten and delight as you tremble with anticipation. First with fingers, I soothe and titillate you. "What is next?" you worry and wonder. I know desires so deep they are unknown even to you, and tour body tells Me they are begging to be released. Together O/our creativity will satiate your desires, then I invite you to collapse into My arms for care and recovery. 

     

    "Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious. I have tried prudent planning long enough. From now on I'll be mad." -Rumi

     

    Etiquette

    1. Complete My application to submit  and pair it with gifts from My wishlists or a Tribute to demonstrate your respect for My time and the seriousness of your intent.
    2. Wait patiently for My reply, and you will be rewarded.
    3. W/we may arrange a brief phone or video chat to explore O/our compatibility.
    4. W/we will schedule a meet and greet at a lovely restaurant to discuss desires, goals and to negotiate.
    5. If W/we agree, a session will be scheduled and deposit secured.

    Throne

    WishTender

    NiteFlirt

    $Vmo, Fet, Twitter, IG: @ empresselsewise

     

    "Welcome in your breath, your first lover, your soulmate."

     

    Traits I offer and seek in Power Exchange

    • be committed, punctual and reliable
    • give/take direction well and also be able to intuitively anticipate the needs
    • able to drop deeply into our roles & develop a professional intimacy
    • participate for the pleasure of it rather than exclusively transactional 
    • creative and fun! 

    If you are new to kink, we can explore these through guidance and daily or weekly tasks.

     

    Integrity

    • the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles
    • the state of being whole and undivided.

    I align with truth through body intelligence and embodied consent. I have clearly defined values from which I live in all realms of my life. I am very good at stating those boundaries and desires firmly and with grace. I am also very good at honoring them in others. 

     

    Consent

    I take consent VERY seriously, and often practice micro-consent as an awareness tool to upset the paradigm of the patriarchal, assumptive, phobic and mindless habits of the fading over-culture. I use RACK and PRICK and an on-going consent model. Negotiation, Warm Up, Scene and Aftercare are equally important parts of play. Communication is sexy!

     

    Communication + Trust = Freedom to Surrender

     

    Mentoring and Tutorials

    I teach hands-on, interactive and double loop learning tutorials for individuals, couples and small groups

    • Consent & Negotiation Basics- an interactive class, co-taught with @RedeemerPdx
    • Spanktacular! Booty Basics, anatomy and driving sensation through creative hand work
    • Impact Safety and Toys & Power Exchange Dynamics and Protocols
    • Headspace: pre-plan for post play- presentation on the neurobiology of headspace, aftercare, triggers and trauma informed play
    • Baby Steps- behavior guidance and modification plans, one step at a time
    • Embodied Consent- an experiential workshop to find your yes and no
    • Emotional First Aid- trauma awareness and self care skills
    • Micro Consent- unpacking the paradigm

    Sessions

    $300 Tribute 

    $400 Breath Play Tribute 

    18+, BDSM only, no escort services

    Sessions are by appointment only

    Unless traveling, I work from Portland's only boutique fetish space SubRosa Society

     

    All posted photos posted of and by me are done so with consent from all parties in the image 

    Location: 
    Portland