Frequently Asked Questions

dickie virgin gets a ton of traffic (we are far and away the #1 ranked FemDom directory in the world) and our primary purpose is to send it off to sites like yours (and for FREE).  We recommend that you utilize all the features we offer to ensure you're getting the most traffic possible.  Below are details on the free services we provide:

Top Three Ways to Utilise dickie virgin for FREE – February 9 Update!

There has been some confusion recently between a ‘Site Listing’ and a ‘Classified Ad’.  You should be using both features if you want maximum traffic directed to your site.  Detailed information is outlined below, including links to the two features.

Once you submit your site listing to dickie, it will be placed on the Worldwide Domme Guide, and when someone does a search for dommes in your city, your listing will pop up.  Check out this example, which uses New York as the location:

Classifieds, however, are ads you create and manage yourself.  They're perfect if you want to announce your availability that day, or if you have an upcoming tour and want to advertise the various cities.  If you use backpage (or used to use it), the process is very similar.  On the Classified tab, look for the ‘Submit Ad’ link on the left side of the page.  That’s the start button to create your own account.  When setting up your account, be sure to make note of your username and password (we suggest a username with no spaces).  Once you've published your first ad, make note of the link that provides tips on how to best use this feature, which you'll find conveniently located on your Account tab.


In a nutshell there are three main ways to utilise dickie virgin for FREE:
1) Have your site linked (create profile) so that anyone searching for a Pro Domme in your area finds you listed here.
2) Create a classified ad account.  These are like backpage ads – you create an account and then manage ads as you like.  If travelling, create multiple ads for each city you will be visiting.
3) Post a video (or videos) at dickie Tube. These can be full length clips with links to your site or clip store, shorter trailers, or even an introduction video where you talk to the camera and let our viewers know who you are, what you like, where you're located, and so on. enlightened

Each of these steps are explained below in further detail:

1) Submit your site link*.  The form HERE makes it easy to do.  Just follow the steps.  Include your banner if you have one as that will appear on our Top 100 page, creating even more exposure and traffic for your site. FYI, we make killer animated banners for $25 if you need one.  We accept Pro Domme, FemDom, or Findom sites but not clip stores or secondary sites like twitter.  If you do NOT have your own unique site url you CAN advertise on the classifieds (info below) as long as the ad has contact info in the body, such as a twitter page, email, or phone number.  If you’d like to promote a clip store, ask us about advertising and also take advantage of dickie Tube (point #3 below) where you can post sample clips and link directly to your site or clip store and even your wish list. 

2) Classified Ads are a new feature we launched in November of 2016 – they’re similar to backpage but FREE.  These are ads you manage yourself – add and delete as you like, or even have multiple ads if you choose.  There’s a lot of traffic on these pages already, so take advantage of it whether you’re working from one location or travelling (where you can add separate ads for each city).  Click on the link to go to classifieds where you will see a link on the left side of the page that says ' Submit Ad'.

3) If you have a clip store or a membership site, take advantage of dickie Tube to showcase your work! Post a recent clip (or a shorter trailer of a clip), or produce an introduction video of yourself.  This is a great way to tell people about yourself, your interests, services offered, and so on.  Along with the clip description you can add links to your clip store, or membership site, or even your gift list if you like.  Please don't confuse adding a free clip here with having your clips pirated on other sites! Listing on dickie virgin is a marketing tool that allows you to reach our huge audience and send them directly to your site or clip store.  Thousands are on our site at any one time, so if you want our traffic then showcase your work... or someone else will get the traffic instead.  We have several producers who post clips on a regular basis – it obviously works.  enlightened We did a Poll a while back and over 80% of our visitors say they have paid for FemDom clips in the past year. You can see that our traffic supports the industry so get your content in front of their eyes!

4) If you want even further site-reach, consider paid advertising, which starts as low as $17 a month.  We also offer a plan where everything is managed for you – we create and post clip trailers, post ads, update your text link, retweet you, even do features about you on our blog.  If you know you should focus on marketing but just can't find the time, this is a simple cost effective option that probably costs less than your fee for a 30 minute session. 

If you need help with anything my staff and I are pretty accessible, so write or send me a DM on twitter and we'll walk you through things step by step.

* Your listing will stay on dickie virgin forever provided your website remains active.  If you aren’t sure whether you already have a link on our site, you can do a 'search by name' HERE.  If submitting a new link, you will appear on our home page as well, under the current date’s listings.  You can be republished as a new listing every six months just by completing the form again and choosing the 'site update submission' option.  As an advertiser, your listing is highlighted and automatically updated once a month (no need to contact us).  We recommend you post our banner in a prominent place(s) on your site and link to  And don’t forget to include your Birthday when submitting your site for extra front page exposure leading up to your big day. Just send us the day and month; we don't need the year. If you already submitted your details but forgot to include your birthday, simply send it by email.

What's the difference between a text link and a classified ad and which can I submit to?

The text link is a constant link to your site with a brief description and your pic.  When someone is searching for a Domme by location they can find your name and site link amongst that list.  Your link can also appear on the dickie home page every 6 months upon request or remain there if a site advertiser.  Classifieds are ads that you manage yourself.  You can add multiple ads and delete them as you like, in fact there is an option when creating the ad to have a specific turn off date.  Ideal when travelling so you can have the ad terminate the day after your visit ends.  To Add a text link click on the 'submit Text Link' button on the toolbar.  To add a classifed ad, go to the classifed ads and look for the 'Submit new Ad' link on the left side of the page.

What is the HTML code to display your banner on my site?

Copy entire code below to display the most current dickie virgin banner on your site:

<p><a href=""><img src="" width="468" height="65" /></a></p>

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In addition to clicking the 'Custom Search' link you can also just click on a Country or State or City you see anywhere and it will sort the site to match that criteria.  As an example find a site listing under todays list and click on any of the options there, be it a City, State, Country, or so on.  If you click on 'United States' for example you will get an entire list of US Dommes, click on 'California' and it defines it fuurther into only California links.  Just want Los Angeles, then click on that.  The process is pretty simple so click around and it will make sense quickly.  There is also a Search by Country link above that some find to be the handiest way to search.

Ad banners are available for a monthly fee, with discounted rates for 3 or 6 month plans, as are other strategic marketing concepts that will greatly increase the traffic from dickie virgin to your site.  Contact dickie for full details!  Your banner will appear, for FREE, in rotation on the Top 100 page as long as you send traffic to dickie.  The best way to do this is to add the newest dickie banner below on a prominent location on your site and link to:


All FemDom site links are free and you can request your link be added (by filling out the form on the 'submit link' page) as a new listing again no sooner than every 6 months.  If you want your text ad highlighted, and updated as new monthly, along with other strategic site exposure, for you, on dickie, there is a small monthly charge.  For information on that, banner placement, display on site of your personal tweets, and so on, contact dickie directly at


I'm a submissive male, what's my role?

As dickie is a free site it is really dependant on people coming to the site and using it as a resource to find a Pro Domme, or to find a membership site to join. Telling your Mistress you found her on dickie is very helpful as I often hear from Women after they have had a discussion with a client, and he has mentioned my site.  There are a lot of great ways for a Mistress to get better exposure here, making sure I have her banner so it rotates on my Top List is a good start.  Also, having my banner in a prominent location on her site so she sends traffic here and gets a higher ranking on the Top list (which means more traffic back to her).  Using my newest banner as seen below will generate a lot more clicks than one that is 15 years old!  I've noticed a lot of sites have banners on their link page that lead to non existent sites or sites that haven't updated in a year or two.  If you are sending traffic somewhere it might as well be to someone who is sending you more traffic back, right?

Have you noticed that some of the links have a colored background and a star pic button instead of a button?  That is part of a package that costs $20 a month and also includes all tweets, from those associated with those sites, being displayed on every video page on my site and my Blog.  That's thousands of views a day.  Treating your Mistress with some flowers is nice but they die in a few days, why not spend $20 and give her a little surprise, that lasts a full 30 days, when you show up for your session.  With your payment her link will be moved right to the top of the home page so imagine the surprise when you tell her to check out dickie and there she is, top listing, in bright lights and a 'star' to boot.  Advertisers also get their own banner over their photo, on the pic page, so it's a sweet little package for not a lot of money.  Drop me a line at and I can set it up for you in short order.

Best thing you can definitely do is visit the site frequently and tell 'them' dickie sent you, for that I am most appreciative, anything else is a bonus! - dickie