My philosophy

My style ranges from cruel and demanding to playful and creative to seductive and merciless. Like the Goddess Kali, I contain multitudes and deploy them at my will, depending on your needs, offerings, and desires. Here are some of my manifestations:

Seductress: I lure you in, edge you, taunt you, until you are overcome with desire, and in that moment I turn it all against you. You’re helpless now, reduced to begging, pleading, and craving - but all the satisfaction is now mine.

Humiliatrix: Even though you are naked on your knees, my words seem to derobe you further, stripping any pretensions you have left. My giggling just makes the shame burn hotter until you feel totally exposed for the pathetic thing you are.

Domina: The capacity to think has escaped you, and all that remains are my orders and a burning desire to please me. You discover that your body is capable of far more than you ever dreamed as my unwavering discipline leads you to transcendence.

Goddess: My body is a temple, and your sole purpose is to worship, and give offering. In silence, by candlelight, After I initiate your body with my whip, my needles, my rope I grant you the honor of meditating on the transcendent beauty of my feet, my legs, my armpits. The residual stings, the imprint of my strength on your body fuels your desire as you awe at my splendor.

My favorite activities

While I indulge in a wide range of fetishes and kinks, here are some of My absolute favorites:

• Humiliation / Objectification / Degradation

• Heavy Impact / Brutalization / Heavy Bruising

• Genital Torture

• Blood Play (needles, scalpels, staples)

• Mindfuck / Psychological Play

• Knife Play / Edge Play / Fear Play

• Ritual / Spiritual Play

• Predicaments / Endurance / Ordeals

• Foot Gagging, Foot/Boot Trampling

• Orgasm Denial / Chastity / Post-Orgasm Torture

• Gender-Affirming Gender Play (Sissification, Feminization Lesbian Fantasy)

• Role Play (Cuckolding, Office, Kidnapping, Interrogation, Pet)

SCENARIOS

In person: you and I meet at a well-equipped play space. After negotiating, I leave you to undress and wait naked and kneeling on the floor. you hear My heels click down the hallway and the anticipation is unbearable. you feel My breath on your neck as I wrap a collar around you. It’s time to play.

Social Rendezvous: I meet you at an elegant bar or restaurant. After I order drinks and we exchange small talk, I slip you a pair of panties under the table and instruct you to change. And so begins Our night of discrete fun.

NiteFlirt: Have secrets or fantasies you want to explore before serving Me in person? Not based in NYC or the Bay Area? We can still have plenty of fun. Call Me on My NiteFlirt line, and melt at the sound of My voice, and the elaborate word pictures I love to paint. Look at My Niteflirt profile here.

Double Domme & Group Sessions

I love any opportunity to celebrate My favorite Dominas.

Peruse My friends here to see if there is anyone you would like to invite into O/our fun.

Tribute & Deposits

Tribute is determined based on the type of session and length of engagement, however it starts at $900 for 2 hours. I do not book sessions under 2 hours, unless on tour.

I offer discounts to women, trans people, non-binary people, two-spirit people, and gender non-confirming people. Please inquire.

I require a 20% deposit for all bookings, received within 24 hours of confirming the date/time of our appointment, unless specified otherwise.

LocatioN

I am located in New York City. My in-call locations are in Tribeca and Midtown.

I am available for outcalls and FMTY’s with ample screening, verification, a consultation phone call, and an additional fee.

I tour frequently to D.C., and annually to SF, Paris, and London. Please subscribe to my newsletter for upcoming tour dates.

NYC Availability

Until June 12th 2023, my availability is very limited, and I am traveling and completely unavailable April 30th - June 12th.

Before I leave, I will make the occasional exception for longtime submissives, duo requests with my favorite Dommes, and very very appetizing scene requests.

I do not accept same-day bookings with new clients and usually book 2-3 weeks in advance.

TOURING & FMTY AVAILABILITY

My tours often book up well in advance, though if I am on tour I will consider last-minute and even same-day booking requests if I have the availability.

Given my busy travel schedule, I require at least one month’s notice for Fly Me To You (FMTY) requests.

EXPECTATIONS

I expect you to arrive neat, clean, fresh, and exactly on time.

I consider reasonable outfit requests when made with at least 48 hours notice.

For sessions that require very specific outfit or equipment requests, you are expected to procure or pay for them.

After our scene, you are expected to write a short reflection on our time together and send it within 48 hours.

Limits

I never switch.

I do not perform sessions nude or partially nude.

I do not do full toilet sessions.

I do not do race play.

I do not humiliate based on gender, sexuality, or body type.

cancellation policy

If you cancel a session within 48 hours, I will keep your deposit.

If you cancel a session within 24 hours, I require 25% of the session Tribute.

If you cancel a session within 12 hours, I require 50% of the session Tribute.

The only exception to this policy is a COVID-19 related cancellation.

Tastes & Preferences

Clothing brands: Helmut Lang, Mugler, Alo, Theory

Leather clothing: Kolby Briane, Naasene, Anoeses

Latex clothing: Atsuko Kudo

Jewelry: Alighieri

Leather gear: Mr. S Leather, McHurt

Cuisine: Southeast Asian, Chinese, French, Italian, Japanese

Wine: Cabernet Franc, high skin-contact orange (ideally Georrgian), Montepuciliano d’Abruzzo, late-harvest Napa Cabernet Sauvignon

Favorite films: You and the Night, Tampopo, Basic Instinct, The Handmaiden

Favorite texts: Irigaray’s This Sex Which is Not One, Freud’s Interpretation of Dreams, Favret-Saada’s Deadly Words, Durkheim’s The Elementary Forms of Religious Life, and Foucault’s essay on Binswanger, “Dreams and Existence”