An Interview With Mistress Rowynn of Las Vegas

sb: Thank You very much for this exclusive interview for dickie virgin Mistress Rowynn! Please tell us a little about Your background. Where are You from originally?

MR: I am originally from Ireland.

sb: How did You get involved in SM/BD?

MR: That's a funny story...When I was a teenager I competed in several forms of dance, and as a result I owned several evening gowns and cocktail dresses. I was also very mature and developed for my age and never got carded anywhere I went. Since I was already out of school I used to go to this near by upper scale hotel that frequently had business conventions being hosted there. I would dress up in a cocktail dress, walk into the ballroom and drink and talk with whoever was there. One night I selected a long black halter dress that was slit on the right up to my hip. (You can see a picture of a very similar dress in my profile) Out I went to the convetion dinner that was happening that night.

As a sixteen year old, it was very fun to exploit the open bar at these functions. So there I am on my third whiskey, and a very nervous man walks up to me. He says hello and I say hello, you know the usual. Then he leans in very close to me and whisper "are you her?" Well, I thought I'd been caught party crashing, but I wasn't going to just give myself up so I said "I might be, that depends..." He looks me up and down and says "Look, everything is ready upstairs, I have all the toys and your money and I understand there is no sex, don't worry I don't want sex anyway. So are we on?" Now I was very curious, I wanted to know what kind of toys and what did he mean he had my money? So I went to his hotel room with him.

The room was huge! A full three room suite! he lead me back through to the bed room and handed me an envelope full of cash that I was too embarrassed to count. Then he turned on the light and what I saw on the bed shocked me! Gags, whips, chains floggers, clamps, clothespins, lingerie, collars and leashes and everything you could ever want in a session. But I had never seen most of these things before! I was so shocked, and so curious and so aroused just looking at all these toys, I didn't know what to do.

He walked over to the bed, selected what I now know is a ball gag and handed it to me with the most eager look on his face. So I am standing there holding this leather strap with a hard rubber ball dangling in the middle. I look around at all those toys and surmise that this man has paid me a great deal of money to hurt him. So I hit him with the gag very hard across the face. He melted and started to kiss my feet while I beat him with everything I could get my hands on. I was likely the best night of my life.

I was so turned on by that experience, by how powerful and sexy I felt controlling and hurting that man while he begged and worshiped me that I knew right then that I never wanted to do anything else with my life. So here I am, Pro Domme since I was 16 and I have never looked back. --- I never did run into the real Domina he had intended to see that night, my apologies if she is reading. Shortly after this first encounter, I immediately began to educate myself on the subject of BDSM, psychology and anatomy in order to better serve my clients.
sb: Wow very cool! Are You a Female Supremacist?

MR: I believe that without men there would be no women, so each sex should be respected and honored respectively, ut there is a certain power and grace to femininity that cannot be touched by men.

sb: Where did You start Professionally?

MR: I started in a smallish town in the states.

sb: Is Vegas an SM friendly town?

MR: Yes, and no. It tend to be fairly plastic. Everyone here move on assumtions and there is much confusion between BDSM and prostitution, and that really is tragic.

sb: Please describe Your style of Domination?

MR: I specialize in corporal punishment and I have a lot of fun with what I do. I like to have a good time and laugh and talk while I work. I am also extremely precise with my toys. there is rarely a miss placed blow from me. I take great pride in my work and practice often.

sb: Do You work with other Mistresses?

MR: I do on occasion.

sb What is Your favorite type of scene?

MR: Anything focusing on pain and control and the building of tension into a single exquisite crescendo.

sb: Please tell me the most intense scene You ever did?

MR: It was so simple. Just to deliver a whipping with a home made device, but this whip was fiendish! Heavy, hard rough leather with little sharp bits. Before long the sub was bleeding and squirming, but the arrangement was to not stop for any reason. There wasn't even a safe word. It was amazing, but I shook afterward for several hours just from the rush of it.

sb: Can You tell me the most humiliating thing You ever did to a slave?

MR: We dressed him in very whorish clothing, terrible make up and went to a very sleezy strip club where he was then made to lick the feet of several dancers, and when he wasn't doing that, he was made to act as my foot rest. It was Friday night, and the club was full. Everyone stared and laughed. Very amusing.

sb: Wow lucky slave! So You enjoy playing with crossdressers?

MR: Yes I do. It can be very erotic and very fun to push a person's limits this way.

sb: Your legs and feet are absolutely exquisite. Do You enjoy foot worship?

MR: Yes. I like my feet to be rubbed and worshiped. When my feet are happy, I'm happy!

sb: Do You like heavy corporal?

MR: It is my favorite!

sb: What is Your favorite implement for this?

MR: A single tail and a paddle.

sb: Do You have any personal slaves?

MR: Not currently. Any takers?

sb: Do You take photographs of slaves in sessions?

MR: Upon request, yes. These photos can be private, or I can post them on my website for all the world to see.

sb: What kind of slaves do You like the most and least?

MR: I like a well spoken individual who can have a very interesting conversation. The spineless and those with out will hold no interest for me.

sb: What is Your favorite type of clothing?

MR: I like to dress in well cut, tailored clothes.

sb: What is the greatest thrill You get from Domination?

MR: The exchange of energy. There is no greater high. I love the mutual satisfaction and release of tension.

sb: Do you session with novices?

MR: Yes, I quite enjoy beginners.

sb: What is one of your favorite positions to have a sub in?

MR: Hog tied, or spread eagle.

sb: What is your favorite drink?

MR: Jameson Whiskey, but mostly I like a good cup of tea.

sb: But you are much more than a professional and lifestyle Domina, perhaps you could share one or two of your other interests?

MR: I love to play pool, and I was a professional sword fighter for a number of years and still love the sport.

sb: Do You have any videos for sale?

MR: I will very soon.

sb: What are Your favorite types of gifts?

MR: They are listed on my website, but I mostly appreciate a person using their imagination.

sb: Do You attend any public functions?

MR: I am new to Vegas, so not yet.

sb: Do You also work with Women and couples?

MR:Yes! I love women and couples! I also give lessons and advice to new Dominas. Don't be shy!

sb: What Mistresses do You admire in the scene?

MR: Any one who is a real person, not a cartoon character. We are real people, and it is OK to laugh and smile once in a while, really, it won't kill you.

sb: Mistress Rowynn thank You VERY much for this interview! How can slaves contact You?

MR: Many ways are listed on My Site! You may also email Me. You may chat with me at Mistress_Rowynn on YIM & Mistress Rowynn on AIM. Take your pick!

sb: Thank You again, Mistress. Is there anything You would like to add?

MR: Yes. To any one reading who is curious about seeing me, but nervous, don't be. Feel free to contact me with any questions or concerns. I know how hard this can be to start, but I also know that ignoring the need can feel terrible.

I promise to always make time for email and chat, and if it turns out we don't click, I promise to do anything I can to find you the right Domme for you, I understand not everyone is a match, but how do you know if you never try? I am friendly and personable, reasonable and fun. Don't worry, just drop me a line.

November 22, 2008