An Interview With The Fascinating Diva Diamond!

From Preacher's wife to Pro Domme!

sb: Thank You very much for the interview Diva! i have wanted to interview You ever since i heard that You actually were once married to a clergyman and left him to become a Mistress. That is really wild! So tell me, Where are You located?

DD: I am near San Jose, California.

sb: How were You introduced to the Scene?

DD: I was doing phone sex for a living. I was awarded calls for domination, which I might say is a real challenge on the phone. These calls were very fascinating. I like challenges, something that makes me stretch (grow), so I went for it.

I was exploring my sexuality and attended a swing club, the Red Rooster, and ran into a prodom. She trained girls for The Institute (domination/submissive/regular sex-phone sex company) and we became good friends. For about 6 years She had live in slaves with contracts that supported her. She was their queen and they obeyed and served her.

I was not interested in slave/contracts. It seemed like a lot of work for Me, like I was was a mommy to adults. Not my cup of tea. My Mistress friend was very harsh with Her words and actions to Her slaves. I wanted to create a different style of domination. A style that was firm but sexy. I also learned from the phone domination, that each caller was different.

I realized that to be the Dominatrix I wanted to be and make the slaves return I would become a fantasy engineer. I created my own interview which worked and still works quite well to this very day. I also watched a talk show for domination witnessing two different styles. One was hard core and the other Mistress made many friends with Her slaves.

As I look back, a Mistress must gain respect from Her submissive clients. So, I decided to create good karma for myself and make sure my clients respected me and they got what they needed. It is working.

sb: Yes You have a very good reputation Mistress. Were You ever submissive?

DD: NO!!!

sb: How Old Were You?

DD: 39 years old

sb: Was there a personal experience that prompted You to reign Your Female Superiority?

DD: I was married to a man of the cloth for 17 years. He withheld his love, privately and publicly, humiliated me, and possibly he might have been gay hiding under the cover of the church. To state it lightly, it was very abusive. It was life altering and I barely got out.

I had the help of a Female friend that showed me that what I had was not love. I also had several children which keeps me in the bondage of exhaustion. There was so much pain that I changed and turned the other way.

sb: Yes i totally agree! i really do have a problem with preachers and religious fanatics and have always thought that most have serious mental problems. Bravo for getting away from that man! Please tell us about Your life before You became a Domme?

DD: I was raised in the Mormon church My father was very controlling. He controlled everyone and my mother was only allowed to be the traditional housewife. She was very beautiful and talented. She did not understand Her Female power. She died a very suffering death. I am the first child. I played with boys when I grew up.

I was a tomboy. My father put Me in boy's shoes because I was hell on wheels and very independent. I was always getting in trouble but I wanted my parents attention so I went to good behavior. Little good that did as they ignored Me and gave their attention to the kids that were always in trouble!

I hungered for their attention. I was a high achiever and getting good grades in school was a breeze. In high school I was a pep girl, semi-varsity, and head varsity cheerleader homecoming queen voted most likely to succeed, but underneath not really sure who i was. I was very outgoing, friendly, athletic, and bright, but I did not know how beautiful I was, just like My mother.

You see we learn from our families who we are. Monkey see, monkey do. I went to BYU and graduated. It took 5 years and I found out that I was a talented dancer. I loved it but being unsure of myself, I danced for a compete professional with no direction as to where i was going only to be trained to be a mother and have a family, and take care of the husband .

That was My program when I graduated which was an unusual thing for Women at that time. I then got married but was very unhappy because I did not want to give up my passion for the dance when I got married. I was a virgin, and the first week and I knew I was in trouble because he said I was acting like the textbook sex/married female, always wanting sex.

He was in control and I was doomed for I was married in the temple for time and eternity so i tried to make the best of it. I had 7 children. The first child was deformed which really made me feel bad about myself. I had 3 babies under the age of 3. The deformed child died right before the number 3 was born. I gave the first born up for foster care and I felt like a failure.

It was very hard. I was tired and unloved. He got all the attention for being a man of the cloth while i struggled at home. I think I had a nervous breakdown. I went to counseling and they said if I had the third baby I would kill myself. Well, I proved them wrong, didn't I? :)

A Girl child was born. It was better for awhile, then I had 2 more boys and at the end a Girl. I had a hard time carrying him as I was nauseous for the full nine months and that made Me stop the insanity of trying to get some recognition for something. I just wanted to be admired and loved.

It took some time to get back on my feet but i did and went back to dancing. I got in shape and tried too hard. My body looked really great but I had overuse injuries to both of my knees. What was I to do now? My husband became a bishop and got all the attention. The kids and I suffered. I really suffered the most though.

After knee surgery a girlfriend keep telling Me that what I had was not love, it was torture. I was submissive to a masochistic husband. I finally mustard up the courage and divorced him. Shit hit the fan! His image was tarnished and i could barely walk. I just thought about Tina Turner. She was my warrior Goddess.

I told myself I would not live in a wheel chair for the rest of My life. I decided to go and be wild. I ran into Women who did gang bangs and other Women that i found out later were prostitutes.

I fantasied about having sex with lots of men. I wrote down what I wanted in a new male partner. I was still working through all my stuff. My family did not back me up. They would of rather see Me die than be a better, wild Me. Well why would they know where I was going. They are just into their suffering and they trained me well.

I ran into a very sexually active male that was getting a divorce. I just fucked my brains out for the longest time with him everywhere I could. We went to Las Vegas. I took 3 of my kids with us. I thought Vegas would be a good town to be wild as that is where I did phone sex for 6 1/2 years. I had also did some swinging and was a Pro Domme for a year earlier in My life there.

I ran into my muse, Diana at a wedding and She told me about northern California. I went back and forth for a year and a half before we moved to California where I reside now.

sb: Wow! What a story!!! Does Your ex-husband preacher know about Your new occupation?

DD: The former husband does not know and it needs to be that way. My last child is 18 but he might keep my kids from seeing me.

sb: Well i hope he doesn't surf here at dickie's then. :) Do Your children know what You do?

DD: Some of them know. Three do. I get along with my kids. Some can handle it and others can not. My father is still alive and full of his suffering. When the ex-husband and father die I will tell the other children.

sb: Wow Diva, Your story has really blown Me away! Let's get back to the main theme of this interview though, SM. Did You train under someone?

DD: I followed my instincts and talking on the phone as a Dominatrix. For a short period of time I was trained by a muse, Goddess Diana, in ancient magical rituals that were performed by temple Goddesses. She and I had a glorious time performing these ancient rituals on submissive males.

sb: Very cool! Do You work with Women and couples?

DD: I love Women. I have had a submissive Female by the name of Lydia. She is regretfully gone to the ways of marriage. Right now I have an extreme masochist/Female sub training a dominate female in the art of domination, and a willing Female sub that is very voluptuous.

When it comes to couples the Female must contact me on Her own free will. She must dial the phone Herself. I am into giving Her the freedom to be in control. A lot of Women are starting to take charge of the sexual realm, which the men really want anyway.

sb: Yes that is so true! Are there other professional Dominants that You admire?

DD: Vicki Gold. I have watched her for the last 15 years. I admire Her fetish modeling. Mistress Jacqueline in L.A. She was once a submissive turned prodom. She is a fantasy technician. I read her book and related to her struggle of abuse. I love Mistress Antoinette's commanding beauty plus her attitude towards little men. She can be such a theatrical bitch. Petra Saint for her beauty and Medea because she is so hard to get a session with. She is very picky and we love the same things. Masks and dressing up. Mistress Java for her black supremacy and sense of humor.

sb: Great choices all! Do You maintain a stable of personal slaves? And what do You look for and what do You expect from a personal slave?

DD: Right now I have two house boys, one which divinely protects me and the other is a security guard. In ancient times there were male guards that protect the Goddess in the temple from the evils of the world, above, below and on the earthly plane. This may sound a little bit woo woo but I am protected so I can perform my healing arts on the males and few Females I come in contact with.

They must be able to keep secrets and have complete devotion. I also have a Female that I am training to be dominate. It takes a great deal of patience to lead someone in the right direction. I let them stumble and fall and then they come to me for help. When they want my help that is the best time to lead. It is very important that they show me respect. If there is no respect, I don't acknowledge their presence. I ignore!

sb: What would get a personal slave dismissed?

DD: If I feel that a slave is not showing me respect I will punish them. Ignoring or withholding my presence works the best. I let them beg for mercy or forgiveness and then I give them what they need. A spanking, bondage, making them watch me have pleasure with someone else, whatever gets them hot!!! Then I give them an assignment that they must complete. That puts them in good terms with me.

sb: What can a new slave do to please You in his or Her first visit?

DD: Tell me what a privilege it is to be in my presence. Come with a heart of gratitude.

sb: What are Your favorite types of scenes?

DD: I love psychodrama. I like pushing people beyond their limits. I also like to be in front of an audience or the camera displaying my power. Working with another Female and controlling the male submissive. Mommy scenes and all that's taboo. I have a bit of the rebel streak.

sb: Is there any type of scene You do not do?

DD: I do not switch, wrestle men, and perform professional body piercings and cuttings.

sb: What equipment do You have?

DD: Anderson's cross, bondage table, puppy cage for 350 lb.. puppy, bench, holistic suspension, coming soon medial exam table. Electricity, whips, bondage equipment. Creative back door training apparatus.

sb: What implements do You have?

DD: Whips, bondage cuffs and tape, fire, electricity, kinky probers, chains, collars, hoods, hypnosis devices, nipple and CBT equipment.

sb: Do You have a trans-gender wardrobe?

DD: I do, but I will allow the sub to bring in own their own attire.

sb: Is phone training and postal available?

DD: Sometimes I will allow phone training. In August I will be doing live cam/video training. I do not do postal training as too many submissive do not show enough respect with donation gratuities to Her divine self so forget it.

sb: Do You play in Your personal life?

DD: Yes Ii mainly play with My trained house boy but i do like a good show in public with males that want to be dominated by Me but they don't know what they are getting themselves into. I am a bit mysterious, in fact very mysterious.

sb: That's for sure! Are double session, extended, overnight, or a submissive available?

DD: Double sessions, extended also, but for overnight the sub must get a hotel and then we play My way! I must get my beauty rest. I have double Dommes sessions available and 2 submissive sessions available also.

sb: What was the harshest scene You ever participated in?

DD: I had an edge play that wanted Me to eliminate him up in the mountains in a cabin in a fit of passion. A slave must be aware of what a I feel comfortable with. It is a two way street. I must like it too. He was into oxygen deprivation and corset torture with blows to the body.

I must say that I am not Justin even though he thought he might be the Marquis DeSade. I played one time and told him to get lost. In this profession there are extreme situations that are unpredictable so the Mistress must with her wisdom protect Herself and the slave.

sb: That's for sure! Do You also work with crossdressing and sissy slaves?

DD: I love them. My fantasy is to have a club where they can come to play and strut around.

sb: Do You do public outings with Your crossdressing slaves?

DD: Yes.

sb: Do You enjoy humiliating Your slaves?

DD: Yes. Humiliation is an art. I can deliver almost any humiliating word or scene with the utmost pleasure.

sb: Do You also engage in public humiliation with slaves?

DD: Not enough!!!

sb: What can a new slave do to please You in his or her first visit?

DD: Have the right attitude. Body language tells Me what they are thinking. The right attitude is surrender and remember your place. Give up your control. Worship Me with your passion and desire. I love men to admire my divine presence.

sb: Do You enjoy having Your feet worshiped?

DD: Yes. I have gorgeous size 10 feet with long toes. Like the feet of runway models from around the world. I have a high arch that is exquisite.

sb: Did You envision the success of Your web page when You first started it?

DD: Yes. There was a lot of work that went into this website. Many hours of research. At first I thought that I was behind but now I feel that my research and design made it easy to enter and exit. It does take sometime to down load because of the pics. I wanted to make it fresh which does show my attitude about my art. Color reveals my nature and character. I am an artist and the only reason it was not my major in college is because you are usually poor as an artist.

sb: If someone gave You 5 million dollars, what would You do with it?

DD: Open up a warehouse for domination and create the theater i dream so much of. Maybe a small castle where we could play. I would probably invest the money so it would really grow and then we could have a lot of fun.

sb: Diva Diamond, i think You are really a beautiful person both inside and out and one of the most interesting and candid interview subjects i have ever had. It was really an honor to interview You. Please tell us how a slave can contact You for a session?

DD: They can e-mail me, call Me at 408-378-5858, or visit my website.

sb: Very good Mistress. Thank You again!

DD: You're welcome bruce.