Architect of your Submission
Sensual sessions with a deviously creative dominatrix
Sensual domination uses the toys and techniques of BDSM for the purpose of cultivating an intense engagement of all the senses. It is considered an erotic art that mixes pleasure and pain without sacrificing the intimacy and care involved when two people connect. It can be used for self-discovery, to experience new and intense pleasures, to safely explore your submissive side – the side that yearns to surrender to the desires and demands of a powerful goddess, the side that loves to experience pain when administered slowly and with care.
As a sensual dominant, I believe in the path of desire, a path which readily confuses the fields of pleasure and pain. This confusion can often leave us feeling bewildered and ashamed, but the journey towards the meeting place of pleasure and pain has, in my experience, ultimately rewarded me with more confidence and more control over how I want and need to be pleasured. It can for you too.
As a male submissive you may feel additional shame living out your desires in a world that privileges male dominance. I assure you that in my domain, men who seek submission and worship of the feminine are not only highly regarded, but expected and rewarded.
I am Mistress Violet, let me be your guide.
I am a mysterious soul, and ritual and performance are important facets of my life. I am a seeker, and I believe that those who seek are well suited to guiding others. You may wish to know that I am invested in emotional, physical and psychological safety. Boundaries are an integral part of becoming attuned to one’s desires and needs, they allow us to go deeper because we know we are in safe hands. Within our sessions I know how to balance conscious connection with quality touch, and I will do so with grace, humour and creativity. To put things simply, I enjoy administering pain, diving into a chosen fantasy role, and whispering dark secrets into your ear.
My sessions can range from slow and gentle, to incredibly sadistic, but your well-being is always my concern. I embrace laughter in my play and seek to align with intelligent, articulate types as well as those whose innate curiosity has brought them to explore the darker aspects of sexuality and psychology. This doesn’t mean that you have to have it all figured out, but only know that I ask for relationships with my clients that foreground mutual respect for the oppositional roles of dominant and submissive.
I believe that finding balance within contradictions brings us closer to understanding the dualistic nature of the human experience. Most of us live our lives feeling unsure or guilty about what we want; we can never fully commit to one thing, or we simply don’t know what we are looking for. Sadomasochism is profoundly energetic in this regard. As an exploration of desire par excellence, it can become a tool for discovering what we really want. When practised consciously and with awareness, it can bring us into the present moment with great force. I value it because of its' capacity to create moments that give both intense physical satisfaction and deep spiritual immanence.
Mistress Violet at a glance…
Dress size XS / Shoe size 7 / glove size 7
Drinks: champagne, red & white wine from Burgundy, aromatic gins
Food: Japanese, Italian. I love a tasting menu! I’m a big fan of anything milk chocolate from Soma or Vosges. I have a sweet tooth and love anything with matcha. Note that I have a caffeine sensitivity and can’t have coffee or dark chocolate.
Interests: I spend a lot of my time engaged in pursuits like skiing, yoga, hiking, swimming, and cycling. I’m a big cinephile and love going to the movies or watching films curled up in bed on my laptop. Cocktails make me happy.
E-Gift certificates to Village Juicery, Alo Yoga, Hammam Spa, Etsy, and Langdon Hall enrich my life and make me feel very well served. You can visit my wishlist here.
Rates
Sessions
Overnight bondage
Dungeon incall: $400 per hour / 90min minimum
Hotel outcalls: $450 per hour
3-4hr session + dinner + overnight bondage + 1hr morning service: $3500
Deposits
A $100 non-refundable deposit via PayPal or etransfer is required.
*Not to be sent via my regular work email, I will send you a separate email address.
Screening
Either a reference from an SP active within the last year or a verifiable ID such as your LinkedIn profile or driver’s license. You may also book a 30min Skype session in lieu of the above ($200 fee). You can fill out this information on my contact form.
I have high expectations…
First and foremost good hygiene and good manners, punctuality, timely and clear communication, 24hr advance notice in the event of rescheduling or cancellations. I liked to be referred to as ‘Mistress’ or ‘Mistress Violet’ when we meet.
There is a shower available for your use before and after our session. I like a well-groomed and nice-smelling submissive; refrain from using heavy perfumes and use mouthwash.
I am a highly organized and creative individual, deeply committed to acts of consensual perversion. Arrive with an open, questioning, and reflective mind and you will receive the best from Me.
